Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Beautiful Young Supreme DIVA- Lesson 2

New week, thank God, we all survived. Sometimes I start off with a story like last week, but I wanted to bring this week's helper with a twist. Poetry helps people understand how feel and can also become a stress reliever. It's obvious that most of you know that already, so why should I explain the benefits of poetry, it's just nourishing to the soul.

So here goes…..


Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so some may say.

Stare in the mirror; make an image worthy of a Queen.

The fake beauty others imitate, which men demean.

See of course, the devil is a lie, it doesn't go that way.

Beauty is rooted by self-esteem.

Self- esteem is granted by that inner feeling disguised by love.

Love is how you should feel about yourself.

If you love yourself, your self esteem will be stronger, yet creating beauty.

So when you stare in the mirror, it is indeed in the eye of the beholder.

YOURS.


Few Pointers:

  1. Beauty is whatever you think it is.
  2. It's never what you see; it's only how you feel. But! How you feel should exploit what they see, thus making a true outer beauty. If you love yourself, take care of yourself. Carry yourself as a lady, not a slut. The men that like the slut, only chasing the cat, not the mind. I have to keep it real.
  3. Most of the times, it is about attitude. It defines you.
  4. Hint: if beauty is a mindset, where is your mindset on?
  5. A real man, of course, looks at the outer beauty first, and then examines her inner beauty. Discovering her worthiness of his time and dedication towards a worthwhile relationship. A committed relationship.
  6. Just because some men around you are into this one chick, that doesn't mean anything. Think about it.
    1. What are they after?
    2. How was she dressed? Slutty? Or sophisticated?
    3. What did these men look like?
  7. Do NOT, I repeat, Do Not confuse yourself with a slut, which has to show off her assets and not her qualities. Presentation People!


If you agree or want to add more to this topic ONLY at hand, make a comment. Email me at sheremere@yahoo.com

A journey through the truth sets a path of great destination. – D!V@

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

A Fresh start to a Junior Year Beginning- Lesson 1

So far, UTK is the place to be for me. I have met some cool people and learned things about others. I have taken on new trades and a new life. I have done this all, and there is still miles worth of room to grow. I understand that sometimes it is going to be hard to face life and breakthrough the waves that are pushing against you. Full believer!! I might hit a few obstacles every other day, but I'm still here. Enough of the introduction the beginning of a new ending, let's get down to real stuff.

First of all, a wise man dressed up as a woman said, "If they want to go, let them go…..all you need is at least one good friend", may not be exactly Tyler Perry words but you get the drift. See this year was basically a test to see if I would actually let it go. I mean Keyshia Cole had the song to help women who was still missing the dreadful ex of their lives, while I was wondering about someone who I thought was my friend. I mean I knew this person for some years and all the sudden want to be all funny acting. Of course there were signs pal!!! But me, being the person that I am was thinking maybe they are going through bad times or something. I asked them, did they have a problem with me, but they never said they did. I was iffy about that, and I am glad I was. The conclusion of this friendship ended when another friend of mine texted me some great news about the chick. And luckily they were factual. I just couldn't believe the mess, then the next day gonna try to talk to me as if nothing ever happened. Just to let you know, NO I did not confront her, that drama, ain't my style, I am just going to let her be and let God handle her. I mean the way I see her life is going downhill anyway. But anywhoo.

1. DON'T ignore the signs, but make sure it's coming from the right entity in your life.

2. Don't seek revenge, that's God business.

3. LET IT GO, people like that where only meant to be there to teach you a lesson and make you a stronger person. Believe me when I say I am.

4. Don't Fight either. I mean if you want to go to jail for fighting and ruin a piece of your life, go right ahead. It doesn't solve anything.

5. See it only as an opportunity to show the ones around that you are an adult and you have things under control the RIGHT way. Karma can grant you prosperity or take the joy from you.

P.S. >>>>> I have to keep it real. The rest is coming next week.

Friday, May 9, 2008

Let’s Get Started!


 

*I want you to write how you feel. So inquire about the blog, you can really make a difference. Show me your skills*


 

Ok…… Diva is in the building. I finally a junior now in college and I'm so excited about that. I finally did this blog thing, as you can see. You're reading it dummy. Lol. Enough of the chipper chapper. I got a few things on my mind right now. How come tuition is always rising but not your scholarship money, college is getting kind of expensive. The term, "Broke College Student" is real. Next year, I am not having a meal plan, because the food there stinks. Ewww…….

Next thing that comes mind!! The "freshman 15" is no joke, ladies especially take caution to this. It doesn't happen to everybody but it can happen to you. So take heed to this warning, and take care of yourself. I'm "sitting" here trying to figure out how to lose this weight I gained and some more. Any ideas?!?! But yeah, I'm going to start jogging. Psss.. They say it's good for the heart. But guess what! You can get the same effect walking in a fast pace. I did that yesterday. What a great start!

Third. I'm also going to publish my book. So you have to get it, it's called Lil Mama. I *might* put a snippet of a chapter on here. It's an African American Romance novel and it's sure to help you come from boring to intrigued. Don't let the title fool you, it's on totally different stage on life. Hopefully it opens the eyes of some people who totally need it.

Anywhoo. Got questions? Well I got answers. Post a comment with your question and I will get back to you.

Have you checked my poll lately? If not! Go vote. Your opinion matters.

-Diva.

The Next Generation is in your hands.

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

The First One and I need your help!!!!!

Hello, I hope you take my blog seriously as a lesson learned. These are only feelings. Take them only as my opinions. With that being said, I am on an agenda to bring all women and men together on an understanding basis. In order to do so, I need your help. I would like your input on the world and the way you see it. I want a little discussion on topics that you are interested in dealing with male or female ways that you are intrigued by or despise. It's all good here. It is just conversation that may help to better understand each other.

Looking for:

  • Male or Female
  • Over the age of 16
  • Preferably college students
  • People who are serious and curious about life
  • People who love to have fun

If you want to write for this blog, I would love someone who love to write at least 2 times a month. Have an open mind and nothing is inappropriate, except nonsense. You can write about anything on your mind.

Also it would be nice to have photographers and people who know how to work with html. If you're a photographer, and you take photos that grasp life. Contact me.


 

Everything will be for fun and free. Also meaning the things you do for this blog is for free. This would be a good way to get out there and be recognized. Especially for college students that want employers to view work or gain a great hobby that can influence someone. To be blessed is to be a blessing to someone else, so give knowledge to the world.

~All inquiries should email me at sheremere@yahoo.com